Say No Like a Pro: 25 Polite Date Rejections That Always Work!

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Be Honest and Direct

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Be Respectful and Considerate

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Use “I” Statements to Express Your Feelings

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Keep It Short and Sweet

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"Never make up an excuse or pretend that you're busy. If you do, there's a big chance that they'll ask you out on a date again another time, which will just put you in an even more awkward position."

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(25 Ways + Expert Insights)

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How to Politely Decline a

date

Be Honest and Direct

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Say something like, “Thanks for the invite. I’m flattered, but I don’t feel that we have a romantic connection.”

Be Respectful and Considerate

2

You could try, “I truly appreciate you asking me out. It’s just that I don’t think we’re a good match.”

Use “I” Statements to Express Your Feelings

3

For example, say, “I don’t feel a romantic connection” instead of “You’re not my type.” See, the first one’s centered on your feelings — no blame, no harsh judgments, just your honest perspective.

Keep It Short and Sweet

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Maintain a Friendly Tone

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Don’t Ghost or Ignore Them

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"Never make up an excuse or pretend that you're busy. If you do, there's a big chance that they'll ask you out on a date again another time, which will just put you in an even more awkward position."

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How to Politely Decline a

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