215 Questions to Ask When Entering a Polyamorous Relationship

Questions to Ask Yourself

What motivates me to explore a polyamorous relationship?

Am I seeking something in polyamory that I feel is missing in monogamy?

Have I researched enough about polyamory to make an informed decision?

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How do I feel about the potential impact on my social and family life?

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How much time can I realistically dedicate to each of my relationships?

Can I balance my personal, professional, and romantic commitments effectively?

How do I feel about splitting financial resources among multiple partners, if applicable?

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How will I manage my energy levels to ensure I’m fully present in each relationship?

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Am I comfortable with my partners displaying affection toward others in my presence?

Am I ready to tackle the emotional complexities of balancing multiple relationships?

What steps will I take if I feel emotionally overwhelmed by managing multiple relationships?

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How do I plan to celebrate and appreciate my unique emotional connections with each partner?

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Questions to Ask Your Partner(s)

What are your expectations regarding the frequency and type of communication between us and other partners?

What boundaries do you consider non-negotiable, and how can we respect them together?

What are your thoughts on sharing information about our relationship dynamics with friends or family?

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How can we create a safe space for each other to express vulnerabilities and fears?

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How important is it for you that all partners meet or interact with each other?

How do you feel about the idea of cohabitation, if at all, in the future?

What role do you see each of your partners playing in your life in the long term?

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How can we maintain flexibility in our relationship goals while still providing stability and security for each other?

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Can we establish a routine for regular health check-ups and sharing test results?

What consent practices are most important to you, and how can we ensure they are consistently followed?

Do you have any specific health needs or concerns I should be aware of, and how can I support you?

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How do we ensure that our relationship practices do not put any partner at risk, physically or emotionally?

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