350 Questions to Ask a Pregnant Woman

Every expectant mother embarks on a unique journey filled with hopes, plans, and a world of emotions. Asking the right questions can unlock fascinating tales and insights from this transformative chapter. Dive in, and discover the heartbeat of her experience!

About Her Cravings

1. What’s the first craving you noticed during your pregnancy?
2. Have you had any unusual food combinations that you’ve enjoyed?
3. Is there a specific time of day when your cravings are strongest?
4. Are your cravings mostly for sweet, salty, sour, or spicy foods?
5. Have you craved any foods that you didn’t like before pregnancy?
6. Is there a particular snack you always have on hand now?
7. Have you had any cravings for non-food items? (A condition known as pica.)
8. Are there any foods you used to love but now can’t stand?
9. Have you noticed a pattern in your cravings, like after certain activities or emotions?
10. Has there been a particular restaurant or dish you’ve needed to visit or have repeatedly?
11. Have you tried any new recipes or foods because of your cravings?
12. Were there any cravings you were surprised by?
13. Are there any cravings that remind you of your childhood or past memories?
14. How do you manage your cravings if you can’t immediately satisfy them?
15. Has your partner or family tried any of your craving-inspired dishes with you?
16. Have you discovered any new favorite foods during this time?
17. Are there any foods or drinks that help curb or balance out your cravings?
18. Did you have similar cravings if you’ve been pregnant before?
19. How do you handle cravings in the middle of the night?
20. Are there any foods from other cultures or cuisines you’ve been drawn to?
21. Have your cravings changed with each trimester?
22. Are there any seasonal foods you’ve been craving more of?
23. How do you balance nutrition with indulging in your cravings?
24. Has there been a craving you found funny or odd?
25. Are you keeping a journal or record of your cravings?
26. Did you expect to have these cravings before you became pregnant?
27. Has anyone gifted you a food item because of your known cravings?
28. Are there any fruits or vegetables you’ve craved more than usual?
29. Have your drink preferences changed along with food cravings?
30. Do you find your cravings to be more texture or flavor-driven?

About the Baby’s Development

1. How far along are you in your pregnancy now?
2. Can you feel the baby moving yet?
3. Have you noticed any patterns or routines in the baby’s movements?
4. Have you heard the baby’s heartbeat at your check-ups?
5. What was the baby’s estimated size at your last ultrasound?
6. Has your doctor mentioned if the baby is positioned head down yet?
7. Do you use any apps or books to track the baby’s weekly development?
8. Are there any developmental milestones you’re particularly excited about?
9. Have you noticed any reactions from the baby to certain foods or sounds?
10. Have you done a 3D or 4D ultrasound to see the baby’s features?
11. How did you feel the first time you felt the baby kick?
12. Do you know if the baby has hair yet based on your ultrasounds?
13. How often do you have appointments to check on the baby’s development?
14. Is the baby’s development on track with the average for their gestational age?
15. Are you and your partner talking or singing to the baby?
16. Have you noticed if the baby is more active during the day or night?
17. Have you been informed of the baby’s lung development and readiness for birth?
18. Did you find out the baby’s gender through a development scan?
19. Are you monitoring the baby’s growth with fundal height measurements?
20. How did you feel seeing the baby’s development through ultrasound images?
21. Are you aware of the baby’s current position, like breech or transverse?
22. Have you learned about the stages of brain development for your baby?
23. Has the baby had any hiccups that you’ve felt?
24. Do you know if the baby’s senses, like hearing or vision, have developed?
25. Are there any developmental aspects you’re curious or concerned about?
26. Have you been advised on any exercises to help with the baby’s positioning?
27. How does your doctor or midwife update you on the baby’s growth and well-being?
28. Are you doing kick counts or tracking the baby’s daily movements?
29. Do you know when the baby’s major organs completed their development?
30. How does learning about the baby’s development impact your preparations and emotions as you approach the due date?

About Her Feelings

1. How are you feeling today?
2. Has your mood been changing a lot during the pregnancy?
3. What’s been the most exciting emotion you’ve experienced so far?
4. Are there things that have unexpectedly made you emotional?
5. How do you feel when you think about meeting your baby for the first time?
6. Have you felt more connected to your own mother or other family members during this time?
7. Are there any particular moments that have made you feel especially proud or empowered?
8. How do you feel about the physical changes in your body?
9. Do you have any anxieties or fears about labor and delivery?
10. How do you feel when you hear your baby’s heartbeat or feel their movements?
11. Have you had any dreams about your baby or being a mother?
12. Are there moments when you feel overwhelmed? What helps you during those times?
13. How do you feel about the support you’re receiving from your partner, friends, or family?
14. Are there certain activities or routines that make you feel particularly good?
15. How do you feel when you think about becoming a parent?
16. Are there any cultural or family traditions about pregnancy that influence your feelings?
17. Do you feel prepared for the postpartum period?
18. How do you manage days when you’re feeling particularly tired or fatigued?
19. Are there any pregnancy-related topics or decisions that have been emotionally challenging for you?
20. How do you feel about balancing work and motherhood, if applicable?
21. Are there specific memories from this pregnancy that you think you’ll cherish forever?
22. How do you feel when you think about the baby’s future and milestones?
23. Have you experienced moments of introspection or reflection during your pregnancy?
24. How do you cope with any uncertainties or unknowns about motherhood?
25. Are there books, movies, or songs that have evoked strong feelings during your pregnancy?
26. How do you feel about the advice and stories others share about their own pregnancies?
27. Are there certain affirmations or thoughts that uplift your spirits?
28. How do you feel about your relationship with your partner evolving as you become parents?
29. Do you ever take moments for self-care? How do they make you feel?
30. How does it feel to imagine the first moments you’ll spend with your baby after birth?

About Her Favorite Memories

1. What was your reaction when you first found out you were pregnant?
2. Do you remember the moment you told your partner or loved ones about the pregnancy?
3. What’s your most cherished memory from your first trimester?
4. Have there been any funny moments related to pregnancy that you’ll always remember?
5. Can you recall a time during this pregnancy that made you laugh out loud?
6. What was your favorite reaction from someone when they learned you were expecting?
7. Have you had a memorable dream about your baby or the future?
8. Was there a particular doctor’s appointment or ultrasound that stood out to you?
9. Do you have a favorite memory of setting up the baby’s nursery or buying baby essentials?
10. Were there moments with your partner, like feeling the baby’s kick together, that you found special?
11. Have you taken any trips or “babymoons” that you’ll cherish?
12. Can you recall a day when you felt particularly radiant or beautiful during your pregnancy?
13. Do you have a memory of the first baby-related gift you received?
14. Have you attended prenatal classes or group activities where you made lasting memories?
15. Was there a song or movie you watched during your pregnancy that will always remind you of this time?
16. Have you had a special moment when you were talking or singing to your baby?
17. What was the most touching piece of advice or story someone shared with you?
18. Have you kept a pregnancy journal or diary and documented any standout moments?
19. Was there a holiday or celebration during your pregnancy that was especially memorable?
20. Can you remember a time when something surprised or amazed you about your pregnancy?
21. Have you had any heartwarming interactions with children about your pregnancy?
22. What’s your fondest memory from your baby shower or any pregnancy celebration?
23. Do you have a favorite photo from your pregnancy that captures a cherished moment?
24. Were there times when you felt incredibly connected to the baby and would like to remember?
25. Did you and your partner have any special rituals or routines during the pregnancy?
26. Was there a book or story you read during pregnancy that left a lasting impression?
27. Can you recall any special moments with your family, discussing the baby or their future?
28. Were there moments of quiet reflection about motherhood that you found profound?
29. Have you created or received any art or crafts related to your pregnancy that hold special memories?
30. As you approach your due date, is there a recent memory you know you’ll want to hold onto?

About Her Preparations

1. Have you chosen a name for the baby yet?
2. Are you setting up a nursery? What’s the theme or color scheme?
3. Have you decided on a hospital or birthing center for the delivery?
4. Do you have a birth plan in place?
5. How have you prepared your home for the baby’s arrival?
6. Have you taken any prenatal or childbirth education classes?
7. Are you planning on breastfeeding? Have you taken any classes or bought supplies for it?
8. Have you packed a hospital bag? What are some must-have items you included?
9. Are you researching or have you chosen a pediatrician for the baby?
10. How are you preparing siblings or pets for the baby’s arrival?
11. Have you and your partner discussed parental leave or time off after the baby arrives?
12. Are you planning a baby shower or celebration before the birth?
13. Have you bought a car seat? Did you get it professionally installed or checked?
14. Are you reading any books or guides about parenting or baby care?
15. Have you decided on cloth diapers or disposables? How have you prepared for that?
16. How are you preparing emotionally and mentally for labor and delivery?
17. Are you looking into postpartum resources or support groups in your community?
18. Have you made any meal preps or plans for the initial weeks after the baby’s birth?
19. Do you have a support system in place for post-delivery, like friends or family helping out?
20. Have you looked into or registered for baby essentials like a crib, stroller, or baby carrier?
21. Are you taking any supplements or vitamins in preparation for childbirth or breastfeeding?
22. How are you preparing financially for the baby’s arrival and any changes to your budget?
23. Have you done any exercises or stretches to prepare for labor, like prenatal yoga?
24. Are you planning any rituals or ceremonies after the baby’s birth, like christenings or naming ceremonies?
25. Have you discussed or documented any wishes about baby-related decisions, like vaccinations or feeding options?
26. Are you creating any memory keepsakes, like belly casts or pregnancy photo albums?
27. Have you had discussions with your partner about shared responsibilities after the baby comes?
28. Are you planning or have you done a maternity photo shoot?
29. How are you planning to introduce the baby to extended family and friends?
30. Have you made any preparations or considerations for your own postpartum recovery?

About Her Hopes for the Baby

1. What are your biggest hopes for your baby’s future?
2. Do you have any wishes about the kind of person you hope your child will grow up to be?
3. What values or lessons do you most want to instill in your child?
4. Are there any family traditions you hope to pass down to your baby?
5. What kind of world do you hope your baby grows up in?
6. Do you have any specific hopes about your child’s education?
7. What qualities do you hope your child will inherit from you or your partner?
8. Are there any adventures or experiences you’re particularly excited to share with your baby?
9. How do you hope your relationship with your baby will evolve as they grow up?
10. What dreams do you have for your child’s happiness and well-being?
11. Do you have hopes about your baby’s relationship with siblings or other family members?
12. What kind of bond do you hope your child will have with their grandparents?
13. Are there any cultural or family milestones you’re looking forward to for your baby?
14. How do you hope to inspire or guide your baby in their passions or interests?
15. What’s one thing you hope your child will always remember about their childhood?
16. Are there any particular challenges you hope your baby will be equipped to handle?
17. What hopes do you have for your baby’s sense of self and confidence?
18. How do you hope to support your baby in finding their own path in life?
19. Are there any personal achievements or milestones you’re eager to see your child reach?
20. How do you hope to foster a sense of curiosity and learning in your child?
21. What are your hopes for your baby’s relationships with friends and peers?
22. Are there any qualities like kindness, resilience, or empathy that you especially hope your baby will embody?
23. How do you hope to guide your child through life’s inevitable ups and downs?
24. What are your dreams for your baby’s career or professional life?
25. How do you hope your child will give back to the community or world around them?
26. What are your hopes for the bond between your child and their potential future family?
27. Are there any specific skills or hobbies you hope to introduce to your child?
28. How do you envision celebrating your baby’s achievements and successes?
29. What are your dreams about the adventures or travels you’d like to have with your child?
30. Above all, what’s the one thing you wish most for your baby?

About Her Plans After Birth

1. How long do you plan to stay in the hospital or birthing center after delivery?
2. Are you planning to breastfeed or formula-feed?
3. Have you thought about a sleep schedule for the baby?
4. Do you plan to go back to work after maternity leave? If so, when?
5. Are you considering hiring a postpartum doula or nanny?
6. How soon do you plan to have your baby meet extended family and friends?
7. Do you have any postpartum exercise or recovery plans?
8. Will you be having a post-birth celebration or ceremony, like a baptism or naming ceremony?
9. Have you looked into childcare options for when you return to work?
10. Do you have a plan for managing household chores after the baby arrives?
11. Are you and your partner planning to share night-time baby duties?
12. Do you plan to keep a baby journal or scrapbook?
13. What’s your plan for your first outing with the baby?
14. Have you discussed parental roles and responsibilities with your partner?
15. Are you planning to enroll your baby in any early learning programs or activities?
16. How soon do you plan to take the baby on their first trip?
17. Do you intend to introduce solid foods at a certain age?
18. What’s your plan for baby-proofing your home?
19. Do you have a plan for sibling or pet introductions to the new baby?
20. Are you considering any particular parenting styles or philosophies?
21. Have you thought about when you might try for another child, if at all?
22. Do you have plans for your first date night or alone time with your partner post-birth?
23. Are you planning to capture the baby’s milestones in photos or videos?
24. Do you intend to have a set routine for the baby right away?
25. Are you considering any classes or social groups for new moms?
26. Do you have any goals for your own professional development post-birth?
27. How do you plan to maintain your own mental health and well-being after the baby arrives?
28. Have you made any financial plans or adjustments for after the baby’s birth?
29. Do you plan to document the baby’s growth and development in a special way?
30. What’s the first thing you’re looking forward to doing once you’re feeling up to it post-birth?

About Her Support System

1. Who do you consider your main source of support during this pregnancy?
2. How do you feel your partner has been supportive throughout the pregnancy?
3. Are there any friends or family members you’ve particularly leaned on during this time?
4. Have you joined any pregnancy or mommy groups for added support?
5. Do you have any healthcare professionals, like a doula or midwife, supporting you through this journey?
6. How have your parents or siblings been involved or supportive?
7. Have you attended any prenatal classes or workshops with someone?
8. Are there friends or family you plan to have around immediately after birth?
9. How do you anticipate your support needs changing after the baby arrives?
10. Do you have people you can rely on for advice or sharing experiences about motherhood?
11. Have any friends or colleagues been particularly helpful or understanding during your pregnancy?
12. Are there local community resources or centers you’ve sought support from?
13. Have you and your partner discussed how you’ll support each other during labor and postpartum?
14. How do you feel about accepting help or assistance from others after the baby arrives?
15. Are there specific tasks or roles your support network has offered to help with?
16. Do you have a “go-to” person for emotional support when things get overwhelming?
17. Have you considered joining any postnatal support or therapy groups?
18. Are you and your partner planning any couple’s activities or counseling to strengthen your relationship post-birth?
19. How do you communicate your needs or concerns to your support network?
20. Have any books, podcasts, or online communities been especially supportive or informative?
21. Do you have plans in place for someone to assist with other children or pets during the labor process?
22. How do you feel about setting boundaries with family and friends post-birth?
23. Are there cultural or community traditions that are providing you with support?
24. How do you recharge or seek support for yourself when you need a break?
25. Have you discussed potential challenges or concerns with your support network?
26. Do you have any mentors or role models who’ve been through pregnancy that you’ve connected with?
27. How do you plan to maintain or nurture your support relationships after the baby’s birth?
28. Have you and your partner discussed ways to maintain your bond and support each other in the early days of parenthood?
29. Are there specific ways your workplace or colleagues have been supportive?
30. How has your own self-care routine contributed to your sense of support and well-being?

For an Interview

1. How did you feel when you first found out you were pregnant?
2. What has been the most surprising aspect of your pregnancy so far?
3. Have you experienced any unique cravings or aversions to certain foods?
4. What are some of the changes, both physical and emotional, that you’ve noticed since becoming pregnant?
5. How are you preparing for the arrival of your baby?
6. How have your family and friends reacted to the news? Have they been supportive?
7. Are there any cultural or family traditions related to pregnancy and childbirth that you plan to follow?
8. What is one piece of advice you’ve received that has been particularly helpful or meaningful to you?
9. How are you taking care of your mental and physical health during this time?
10. Have you faced any challenges or concerns during your pregnancy? How have you addressed them?
11. Are there any books, resources, or communities that have been beneficial for you during this journey?
12. How has your relationship with your partner (if applicable) evolved or changed during the pregnancy?
13. Are you planning on finding out the gender of your baby, or will it be a surprise?
14. Have you thought about names for the baby? Without revealing, what inspires your choices?
15. How do you envision your life after the baby arrives?
16. What are your hopes and dreams for your child?
17. Are you planning on any specific birthing methods or places, like a home birth, water birth, or hospital delivery?
18. How are you navigating work or career decisions during and after your pregnancy?
19. What kind of support system do you have in place for the postpartum period?
20. Is there anything you’d like people to know or understand better about pregnancy or about your personal experience?

At Baby Shower

1. How did you choose the baby’s nursery theme or colors?
2. What’s the most exciting baby item you’ve received so far?
3. Do you have a favorite lullaby you’re excited to sing?
4. What are you most looking forward to about being a mom?
5. Are you hoping the baby has your eyes, smile, or some other feature?
6. What’s the funniest or weirdest piece of parenting advice you’ve been given?
7. How did you announce your pregnancy to your family and friends?
8. Do you have any late-night snack favorites these days?
9. Which trimester has been your favorite so far?
10. Have you had any really vivid or funny dreams about the baby?
11. Are there any baby books or parenting books on your reading list?
12. What’s the first place you want to visit with your baby?
13. What childhood toy or game are you excited to introduce to your little one?
14. Have you thought of any fun future family traditions?
15. What childhood dish are you excited to cook for your child?
16. What’s the sweetest moment you’ve had during your pregnancy?
17. Is there a song or music you’ve been playing for the baby?
18. How has your pet (if any) reacted to your pregnancy?
19. What’s your go-to comfortable outfit during pregnancy?
20. Which baby outfit can you not wait to put on your little one?
21. Are there any silly fears or worries you’ve had about parenthood?
22. Who in our group do you think will make the baby laugh first?
23. Have you and your partner had any funny disagreements about baby-related things?
24. Which children’s book are you most excited to read to your baby?
25. Are you team “pacifier” or “no pacifier“?
26. What was the best moment you’ve shared with your partner during the pregnancy?
27. Have you imagined what the baby’s first word might be?
28. Which family member do you think the baby will resemble most?
29. Have you had any funny misunderstandings or mix-ups because of pregnancy brain?
30. If your baby could have one superpower, what would you want it to be?

In Labor

1. How are you feeling right now?
2. Would you like me to adjust the lighting or room temperature?
3. Can I get you a drink or some ice chips?
4. Would you like me to play some music for you?
5. Do you want a massage or any touch?
6. Is there a particular breathing technique you’d like to focus on?
7. Would you like to change your position?
8. Can I support you in walking or moving?
9. Do you want any pillows or blankets?
10. How can I best support you right now?
11. Would you like me to read to you or tell you a story?
12. Can I get you a cold cloth for your forehead?
13. Would you prefer silence right now?
14. Is there a visualization or mantra you’d like to focus on?
15. Do you want me to update family or friends on your progress?
16. Would you like some lip balm or to freshen up?
17. Are you comfortable, or is there any pain I can help alleviate?
18. Can I remind you of your birth plan or any preferences?
19. Would you like to try using a birthing ball or other tools?
20. Do you need to use the restroom or have assistance?
21. Would you like any aromatherapy or calming scents?
22. Can I help you with your breathing exercises?
23. Do you want to hear some positive affirmations?
24. Would you like some photos or memories captured during breaks?
25. Are there any specific comforts from home you’d like right now?
26. Is there anything specific you’d like to avoid?
27. How are you managing the contractions?
28. Would you like any snacks or nourishment (if allowed)?
29. Is there anything causing you anxiety or stress that I can help with?
30. Remember, you’re doing amazing; is there anything else you need?

Nursing Questions to Ask

1. When was the first day of your last menstrual period?
2. Have you been experiencing any pain or discomfort?
3. Are you currently taking any medications or supplements?
4. Have you noticed any changes in your fetal movements?
5. Do you have any known allergies, especially to medications?
6. Have you had any vaginal bleeding or unusual discharge?
7. Are you experiencing frequent headaches or visual disturbances?
8. Have you felt any contractions or tightening of your abdomen?
9. Do you have a history of any chronic illnesses or conditions?
10. Are you currently or have you recently experienced any swelling in your hands, legs, or face?
11. Have you noticed a sudden increase in thirst or urination?
12. How are you managing your nutrition and diet?
13. Are you feeling any pressure or pain in your pelvic area?
14. Have you been exposed to any infectious diseases or toxins recently?
15. How often are you feeling the baby move each day?
16. Are you having any difficulty sleeping or experiencing insomnia?
17. Have you had any previous pregnancies or miscarriages?
18. Are you experiencing any symptoms of depression or anxiety?
19. Do you use tobacco, alcohol, or any recreational drugs?
20. Have you attended prenatal classes or planning to?
21. Have you had any gastrointestinal symptoms like nausea, vomiting, or heartburn?
22. Are there any hereditary or genetic conditions in your family history?
23. Do you have any concerns about labor and delivery?
24. Are you practicing any exercises or stretches for pregnancy?
25. Have you decided on breastfeeding or bottle-feeding?
26. Are you experiencing any skin changes or itchiness?
27. Have you had a flu shot or any other vaccines during this pregnancy?
28. Do you have a support system in place for after the baby arrives?
29. Have you traveled or are planning to travel during your pregnancy?
30. Have you noticed any changes in the strength or pattern of fetal movements?

Frequently Asked Questions

Should I avoid asking about weight gain or body changes?

It’s a sensitive topic for many. Unless she brings it up, it’s best to steer clear. Focus on her overall well-being rather than physical appearance.

Can I ask about her reading or resources that she’s found beneficial?

Absolutely. Many women explore books, apps, and websites during pregnancy. “Have you come across any interesting reads or resources during your pregnancy?” can be an insightful question.