A few years ago I met Sofie, a woman living on a council estate in London. She had two teenage children, a husband, and a dog. “We were pretty happy until five years ago when Jeff had an accident that left him unable to work. Ever since we are living on his disability pension and
Funny story. I made a subliminal video for one of my 1 to 1 clients for weight loss. Because he had some trust issues, I asked his wife to watch the video on low speed to verify that everything is in order. One month later I asked him how the video worked for him. He
Did you notice how some of the fears we have, make us feel comfortable in unfavorable circumstances? The fear of failure is no different. Sometimes we prefer to carry on pains that no one knows about, rather than allowing others see us failing. We worry that if we take a chance and fail one or
Did you know that more people fear success than fear failing? The natural explanation for it it’s the fact that people who have nothing, take more risks because there is nothing to lose. The more things we accumulate, the less free we might feel, more tied up to a spot, location, situation, job, etc. Somewhere
Mastering self-discipline makes the difference between struggling on your way to a successful life or getting there easy, painless, and fast. This article aims to give you some of the tools you need to become more disciplined in a world that never stops and lures you in too many distractions. Many people say: “I’m afraid
If you were a baby, opening your eyes today for the first time, you wouldn’t know that you can’t; you wouldn’t know there is such thing as failure; you wouldn’t know that you are supposed to be afraid. You would know because no one has already told you so. Most of the things that are
What is assertiveness? Assertiveness is putting your foot down; it is knowing to ask for what you want, desire and need while considering the wants, desires and needs of others at the same time. Assertiveness requires from you to be: Self-confident, Decisive, Self-assured, Forthright, Firm, And, also empathic. People who don’t know how to be
The fourth core interpersonal skill: Influence Why is influence a significant interpersonal skill? Because we are influencing each other all the time. Most times, though we don’t even realize that we are doing it, and sometimes with devastating unintended consequences. Improve your interpersonal skills by learning the art of influencing people because if you want
Negotiation is placing the opinions, the desires and the needs of all the parties involved side by side not face to face because all the parties have to be visible, heard and considered. You are great in some areas and less great in others, therefore, start your negotiation by knowing what you’re dealing with and
Do you find it hard to stay focused on a task or your goal? The majority of us do. To stay focused isn’t and never was an easy task for the human mind. It is somewhat natural for your mind to wander around, to get distracted because this is how we, humans, kept ourselves safe