300 Questions to Ask During Pride Month

Pride Month is more than just rainbows and parades—it’s a time to celebrate, learn, and have meaningful conversations.

Whether you’re part of the LGBTQ+ community or an ally, asking the right questions can deepen your understanding and make this month even more special.

About Celebrations and Parades

1. What does Pride Month mean to you?
2. Why is Pride Month important?
3. How did you first hear about Pride Month?
4. When and where is the local Pride parade happening?
5. Are you going to any Pride events this year?
6. What should someone expect if it’s their first time going to a Pride parade?
7. What’s your favorite part of a Pride parade?
8. Are there any family-friendly events during Pride Month?
9. How can allies support during Pride Month?
10. What’s the history of the Pride flag?
11. Is the Pride parade more about celebration or protest for you?
12. How do you decide what to wear to the parade?
13. Do businesses and brands play a role in Pride parades? Is that a good thing?
14. Are there special guests or floats to watch for in the parade?
15. How has Pride Month changed over the years?
16. What are some good songs for a Pride playlist?
17. Any tips for staying safe during Pride events?
18. How can I meet new people at a Pride event?
19. What kinds of food or drinks are available at Pride celebrations?
20. Are pets welcome at Pride events?
21. Is the parade accessible for people with disabilities?
22. How do Pride celebrations differ around the world?
23. Are there events for specific groups within the LGBTQ+ community?
24. What are some traditions or customs people have for Pride?
25. Are there any cool after-parties?
26. How do you feel when the Pride parade is over?
27. What do you think the future holds for Pride celebrations?
28. How can people keep the spirit of Pride alive all year?
29. Do you have any favorite memories from past Prides?
30. How can I get involved in organizing next year’s Pride events?

About Coming Out

1. What does “coming out” mean to you?
2. When did you know you were ready to come out?
3. Who was the first person you came out to?
4. How did your family react when you came out?
5. What was the hardest part about coming out?
6. Did you find any coming out stories that inspired you?
7. How did your friends respond when you told them?
8. Was school or work a safe space for you to come out?
9. What would you say to someone who’s scared to come out?
10. How has your life changed since coming out?
11. Do you have advice for coming out to parents?
12. Are there any books or movies that helped you?
13. Did you ever regret coming out? Why or why not?
14. Did you come out all at once or in stages?
15. What resources helped you the most?
16. Did you seek support from any LGBTQ+ organizations?
17. How important is it to have a support network?
18. Were there people who surprised you with their reactions?
19. How do you handle negative reactions or discrimination?
20. Is coming out a one-time thing or an ongoing process for you?
21. Do you think it’s easier or harder to come out today compared to the past?
22. Were you inspired by any celebrities who came out?
23. How do you come out to new people you meet now?
24. What do you wish you knew before coming out?
25. How has coming out affected your mental health?
26. How did you celebrate after coming out?
27. Were religious or cultural factors a concern for you?
28. Have you ever helped someone else come out?
29. What do you think is the biggest misconception about coming out?
30. How can allies support those who are coming out?

About Allies

1. What is an ally in the context of LGBTQ+ issues?
2. Why is it important to be an ally?
3. How can someone become a better ally?
4. What should allies avoid saying or doing?
5. Can you share any stories where an ally made a difference in your life?
6. How can allies show support during Pride Month?
7. What books or resources would you recommend for allies?
8. Is it okay for allies to attend Pride events?
9. How can allies support LGBTQ+ people in the workplace?
10. Are there specific ally organizations people can join?
11. What’s one thing allies often misunderstand?
12. How can allies help fight discrimination?
13. Is being an ally a lifelong commitment?
14. What’s the best way for an ally to stand up against hate speech?
15. How can allies help with issues like mental health in the LGBTQ+ community?
16. Can you be an ally even if you don’t know anyone who is LGBTQ+?
17. How can parents be allies to their LGBTQ+ kids?
18. Is it important for allies to be vocal on social media?
19. How can allies educate themselves?
20. What role do allies play in legislation and politics?
21. Can allies be a part of LGBTQ+ organizations?
22. How can schools encourage students to be allies?
23. Should allies also donate to LGBTQ+ causes?
24. How do you feel when an ally messes up but wants to do better?
25. How can allies engage with their own communities to foster acceptance?
26. What are some good first steps to take for someone who wants to be an ally?
27. How do you feel about straight/cisgender people at Pride events?
28. Are there any workshops or courses on becoming a better ally?
29. How can allies help in global LGBTQ+ issues?
30. What’s the most important thing an ally has ever done for you?

About LGBTQ+ Rights

1. Why are LGBTQ+ rights important to you?
2. What are some current legal challenges facing the LGBTQ+ community?
3. How do you think we can achieve equal rights for everyone?
4. Can you name any LGBTQ+ activists who inspire you?
5. What are some big wins for LGBTQ+ rights that give you hope?
6. How does your local government support or not support LGBTQ+ rights?
7. Are there any upcoming elections or votes that could impact LGBTQ+ rights?
8. What can people do to push for equal rights in their community?
9. How does the fight for LGBTQ+ rights relate to other civil rights movements?
10. What are some areas where LGBTQ+ rights are lacking?
11. Are there places in the world where being LGBTQ+ is still illegal?
12. How can we make schools more inclusive and supportive?
13. What role do you think education plays in LGBTQ+ rights?
14. Are there healthcare disparities that the LGBTQ+ community faces?
15. How do different aspects of identity, like race or religion, intersect with LGBTQ+ rights?
16. What are some ways to be respectful of gender identity in everyday life?
17. How are LGBTQ+ rights portrayed in the media?
18. Are there ways to make public spaces more inclusive?
19. What’s the impact of hate crimes on the LGBTQ+ community?
20. How can companies and businesses be more LGBTQ+ inclusive?
21. What are your thoughts on the ban on transgender individuals in the military?
22. Are there specific policies you wish more people knew about?
23. How can we better protect LGBTQ+ youth?
24. What should people know about LGBTQ+ history?
25. Are there international organizations working for global LGBTQ+ rights?
26. How can we make sure LGBTQ+ people have equal economic opportunities?
27. What are some challenges LGBTQ+ people face in finding housing?
28. How can we improve the mental health support for the LGBTQ+ community?
29. Are there upcoming court cases that could be turning points for LGBTQ+ rights?
30. What gives you hope for the future of LGBTQ+ rights?

About Its History

1. How did Pride Month originally get started?
2. Can you tell me about the Stonewall Riots?
3. Who are some key figures in the history of the LGBTQ+ movement?
4. How has the meaning of Pride evolved over time?
5. Were there any events before Stonewall that were important for LGBTQ+ rights?
6. Who was Harvey Milk, and what did he do?
7. What are some historical milestones in the fight for LGBTQ+ equality?
8. How did the first Pride parades differ from today’s events?
9. Can you name any LGBTQ+ activists who aren’t as well-known but should be?
10. How have different cultures historically viewed LGBTQ+ identities?
11. Were there LGBTQ+ movements in other countries that influenced Pride?
12. How have laws changed over the years to be more inclusive?
13. How did the media’s portrayal of LGBTQ+ issues evolve through history?
14. Were there any setbacks in LGBTQ+ history that had a big impact?
15. What role did art and music play in the history of Pride?
16. How have political leaders historically treated LGBTQ+ rights?
17. How did the military’s attitude toward LGBTQ+ individuals change over time?
18. Were there any significant court cases that shaped LGBTQ+ rights?
19. How did the Civil Rights Movement intersect with LGBTQ+ rights?
20. How has the relationship between religion and the LGBTQ+ community changed?
21. Can you name any historical periods or events that were pivotal for LGBTQ+ rights?
22. Were there any LGBTQ+ publications or newsletters that played a role in history?
23. How did the fight for marriage equality evolve?
24. How have other social issues, like feminism, intersected with LGBTQ+ history?
25. How did the LGBTQ+ community respond to crises like the AIDS epidemic?
26. How did advocacy for transgender rights evolve?
27. Were there any specific protests or acts of civil disobedience that were turning points?
28. How did public opinion on LGBTQ+ issues shift over the years?
29. What role did science and healthcare play in understanding LGBTQ+ issues?
30. What do you wish more people knew about the history of Pride?

About Representation in Media

1. How important is LGBTQ+ representation in media to you?
2. Can you name any TV shows or movies that you think represent LGBTQ+ people well?
3. Do you think there’s enough diversity within LGBTQ+ representation?
4. How do you feel when you see stereotypes of LGBTQ+ people in media?
5. Have you ever seen a character who you really related to?
6. What kinds of stories about LGBTQ+ lives would you like to see more of?
7. How has LGBTQ+ representation in media changed over the years?
8. Do you think media representation affects public opinion?
9. Are there any LGBTQ+ actors or creators you particularly admire?
10. What’s the first LGBTQ+ character you remember seeing in media?
11. Do you think there’s a difference in representation between mainstream and indie productions?
12. How do you feel about non-LGBTQ+ actors playing LGBTQ+ roles?
13. Are there certain genres that do a better job of representation than others?
14. How do you feel about the way transgender characters are portrayed?
15. Do you think the media does a good job of representing intersectional identities?
16. Have you noticed any trends in LGBTQ+ storylines?
17. How can the media do a better job of representing older LGBTQ+ individuals?
18. Do you think LGBTQ+ characters are often sidelined or tokenized?
19. What impact do you think better representation could have on LGBTQ+ youth?
20. Have you ever been disappointed by the portrayal of an LGBTQ+ character?
21. Are there any harmful tropes you think should be avoided?
22. How do you feel about the “coming out” storylines commonly portrayed?
23. Do you know of any books that offer good LGBTQ+ representation?
24. What role does social media play in LGBTQ+ representation?
25. How well do news outlets cover LGBTQ+ issues?
26. Do you think certain cultures or countries are better at representation than others?
27. How can audiences support better LGBTQ+ representation in media?
28. How does representation in video games compare to film and TV?
29. Are there any documentaries you’d recommend for understanding LGBTQ+ issues?
30. What would you like to see in the future for LGBTQ+ representation in media?

About Supporting LGBTQ+ Youth

1. Why is it important to provide support to LGBTQ+ youth?
2. What resources are available for young people who are coming out?
3. How can schools create a safer environment for LGBTQ+ students?
4. What are some challenges LGBTQ+ youth face that adults might not?
5. What role do parents play in supporting their LGBTQ+ kids?
6. How can educators be better allies to LGBTQ+ students?
7. Are there mentorship programs for LGBTQ+ youth?
8. What impact does bullying have on LGBTQ+ young people?
9. How can friends support their LGBTQ+ peers?
10. Are there any local organizations focused on helping LGBTQ+ youth?
11. How can social services be more inclusive and supportive?
12. What mental health resources are tailored for LGBTQ+ youth?
13. How can we help young people understand their own identity?
14. How can schools include LGBTQ+ history and education in the curriculum?
15. Are there safe spaces for LGBTQ+ youth to hang out and seek advice?
16. What role can the internet and social media play in offering support?
17. What are some good books or films that could be encouraging for LGBTQ+ youth?
18. How can healthcare services better cater to the needs of LGBTQ+ youth?
19. Are there any summer camps or programs designed for LGBTQ+ young people?
20. How can religious communities be more inclusive of LGBTQ+ youth?
21. What’s the importance of representation for young LGBTQ+ individuals?
22. How can LGBTQ+ youth get involved in activism?
23. What role do older LGBTQ+ individuals play in supporting the younger generation?
24. How can we protect LGBTQ+ youth from homelessness?
25. How do issues like race and disability intersect with LGBTQ+ youth experiences?
26. What are some ways to encourage creative expression among LGBTQ+ young people?
27. How can family members besides parents offer support?
28. What can be done to support transgender and non-binary youth specifically?
29. How can we foster better communication within families?
30. What gives you hope for the future of LGBTQ+ youth?

About LGBTQ+ Symbols

1. What’s the history behind the LGBTQ+ rainbow flag?
2. How many colors are on the original Pride flag, and what does each color mean?
3. Are you familiar with the transgender flag? What do its colors represent?
4. Why do you think symbols like flags are important for the community?
5. Have you seen any variations of the Pride flag? What do they represent?
6. What are some other symbols commonly associated with the LGBTQ+ community?
7. Do different countries have different LGBTQ+ symbols?
8. How do you feel when you see the rainbow flag displayed in public spaces?
9. How have LGBTQ+ symbols changed or evolved over time?
10. What does the pink triangle symbolize, and what’s its history?
11. Are there any symbols specific to LGBTQ+ subcommunities?
12. How have corporations used LGBTQ+ symbols, and what are your thoughts on this?
13. Have you ever worn or displayed LGBTQ+ symbols? Why or why not?
14. What role do these symbols play in protests or activism?
15. Do you think there are any symbols that are controversial within the community?
16. Are there any symbols that focus on intersectionality within the LGBTQ+ community?
17. How can people respectfully use LGBTQ+ symbols?
18. Have you seen LGBTQ+ symbols incorporated into art or creative works?
19. Do you know the story behind the bisexual flag?
20. What does the black and brown stripe added to some rainbow flags represent?
21. Are there any lesser-known LGBTQ+ symbols you wish more people knew about?
22. How do you feel about historical LGBTQ+ symbols that have been reclaimed?
23. Do you think LGBTQ+ symbols are adequately represented in media?
24. Have you ever been educated about the meaning of LGBTQ+ symbols in school?
25. What’s the importance of LGBTQ+ symbols in mental health and well-being?
26. Do you know the symbols that represent asexuality or non-binary identities?
27. How do you feel when you see LGBTQ+ symbols during Pride events?
28. What do these symbols mean to you personally?
29. Do you think new symbols will be created as the community evolves?
30. How do you feel about people outside the community using LGBTQ+ symbols?

About Mental Health

1. How does being a part of the LGBTQ+ community impact mental health?
2. What unique mental health challenges do LGBTQ+ people face?
3. Are there specific mental health resources aimed at the LGBTQ+ community?
4. How can we create safe spaces for discussing mental health within the community?
5. What role do support groups play in the mental well-being of LGBTQ+ folks?
6. How can therapists and counselors be more inclusive and sensitive?
7. Do you think the stigma around mental health is different in the LGBTQ+ community?
8. What strategies can be used to cope with stressors like discrimination or coming out?
9. How can allies be more supportive of LGBTQ+ mental health?
10. How does intersectionality play a role in mental health for LGBTQ+ people?
11. Are LGBTQ+ youth at a higher risk for mental health issues? If so, why?
12. What are some self-care tips that are particularly useful for LGBTQ+ individuals?
13. How can we improve access to mental health services for the LGBTQ+ community?
14. Are there any books or podcasts about LGBTQ+ mental health that you’d recommend?
15. What can schools do to better support the mental health of LGBTQ+ students?
16. How can parents and families affect the mental well-being of their LGBTQ+ children?
17. How do online communities affect the mental health of LGBTQ+ people?
18. What role does body image play in LGBTQ+ mental health?
19. How do Pride events impact mental health, positively or negatively?
20. What’s the relationship between substance abuse and mental health in the LGBTQ+ community?
21. How do social factors like workplace environment affect LGBTQ+ mental health?
22. What can healthcare providers do to better cater to LGBTQ+ mental health?
23. How can we encourage more open conversations about mental health?
24. Do you think certain subcommunities within LGBTQ+ have unique mental health needs?
25. How can we support the mental health of LGBTQ+ people in areas where they are less accepted?
26. What are some signs that someone in the community might need mental health support?
27. How can activism and advocacy impact one’s mental health?
28. What role do cultural attitudes play in shaping mental health for LGBTQ+ individuals?
29. Are there any LGBTQ+ celebrities who’ve spoken openly about mental health that inspire you?
30. How can we keep the mental health conversation going beyond Pride Month?

About Workplace Inclusion

1. How would you rate your workplace’s current level of LGBTQ+ inclusion?
2. Are there any policies at your job that explicitly support LGBTQ+ employees?
3. Does your company offer diversity and inclusion training that covers LGBTQ+ issues?
4. What steps could your workplace take to be more LGBTQ+ inclusive?
5. Have you ever faced discrimination at work because of your LGBTQ+ identity?
6. Is there an LGBTQ+ employee resource group at your company?
7. How do you think an inclusive workplace benefits everyone, not just LGBTQ+ employees?
8. Do you feel comfortable being out at work?
9. How can employers support transgender employees, especially those who are transitioning?
10. Do company benefits, like health insurance, equally serve the needs of LGBTQ+ employees?
11. What can coworkers do to be better allies in the workplace?
12. How does workplace inclusion affect mental health?
13. Do you think remote work has had an impact on LGBTQ+ inclusion?
14. What role do managers and team leaders play in fostering an inclusive environment?
15. Is there room for discussing social issues, like LGBTQ+ rights, in your workplace?
16. Does your company participate in any LGBTQ+ events, like Pride parades or fundraisers?
17. How can job interviews be designed to be more inclusive for LGBTQ+ applicants?
18. What kind of language can be used in the workplace to be more inclusive?
19. Are there any role models in your industry who are openly LGBTQ+?
20. How can companies retain LGBTQ+ talent effectively?
21. How does workplace inclusion vary across different industries?
22. What challenges do LGBTQ+ people of color face in the workplace?
23. How does the company handle reports of discrimination or harassment?
24. Do you think your company’s diversity efforts are genuine or more for a show?
25. How can workplaces better support LGBTQ+ employees’ work-life balance?
26. What would make you feel more supported at work as an LGBTQ+ person?
27. How can HR departments be more proactive in ensuring inclusivity?
28. Do you know of any companies that are particularly good or bad when it comes to LGBTQ+ inclusion?
29. How do international LGBTQ+ employees face unique challenges in the workplace?
30. What’s one action item you’d recommend for companies looking to improve LGBTQ+ inclusion?

Frequently Asked Questions

Are there any questions to avoid?

While it’s important to be curious, some questions could be considered too personal or intrusive. Always think about the context and the comfort level of the person you’re speaking to. Also, avoid questions that stereotype or make assumptions about the LGBTQ+ community.

What should I do if I ask a question that offends someone?

Apologize sincerely and take the opportunity to learn why that question was offensive. It’s a learning process for everyone, and mistakes can be valuable if you use them to improve and be more sensitive in the future.