Sometimes, it can be tough to know what your boyfriend really thinks about you, especially when it comes to the little things that matter most.
I’ll share some thoughtful questions that can help you get closer, understand each other better, and maybe even spark some fun conversations.
These questions aren’t about putting him on the spot but about opening up new ways to connect and understand each other. Ready to learn more about what he thinks of you?
Table of Contents
Emotional Intimacy
- What’s something you wish I understood better about your feelings?
- How do you feel when I open up to you about my fears?
- How do you feel when I show vulnerability to you?
- What’s something you think I do that makes you feel truly understood?
- How do you feel when I’m fully present and focused on you?
- What’s a moment when you felt most emotionally connected to me?
- What’s a way I make you feel loved that you appreciate the most?
- What emotions do you find challenging to express to me?
- What can I do to help you feel more emotionally secure?
- What makes you feel closest to me?
Feelings and Emotions
- How do you feel about the way I express my love for you?
- What’s a feeling you associate with being around me?
- What do you feel when I’m upset or down?
- What’s a moment when you felt proud of me?
- What do you think I do that makes you feel appreciated?
- What’s a feeling you wish I expressed more often?
- What’s a feeling you love to see in me?
- Do you feel emotionally safe with me?
- How does it feel when I do something special for you?
- Are there any emotions you feel I don’t understand well?
Understanding Perceptions
- What’s one thing you think I excel at?
- How do you describe me to others?
- What do you admire most about me?
- Do you think I have changed since we first met?
- In what ways do you think I influence you?
- How do you think I view our relationship?
- How do you think I affect the people around me?
- What do you think I am most passionate about?
- What do you think is my most attractive trait?
- What do you think I bring to your life that no one else does?
Concerns or Insecurities
- Are there any concerns you have about how I handle conflict?
- Is there something about me that makes you feel insecure?
- Is there anything I do that makes you feel uncertain about us?
- Is there a way I could help you feel more secure about us?
- Are there any habits of mine that cause you concern?
- Do you ever feel like I’m not fully present with you?
- Is there something I do that makes you question our future together?
- Do you ever worry that I might not be as committed as you are?
- Are there any fears you have about my feelings for you?
- Is there anything I say or do that makes you feel less important?
Role and Importance
- How do you see me fitting into your future plans?
- What do you think would be different in your life without me?
- What’s a way I make your life better that you appreciate?
- How do you feel about the way I support your dreams?
- What’s something you rely on me for that’s important to you?
- What part of my involvement in your life are you most thankful for?
- How do you think I influence your interactions with others?
- What responsibilities do you think I carry in our relationship?
- How do you think I impact your decisions?
- What aspect of your life do you think I have helped improve?
Memories and Moments
- What is your favorite memory of me?
- Can you share a time when you felt especially proud of me?
- What is the most surprising thing you learned about me in our time together?
- What is your fondest holiday memory with me?
- What simple moment with me do you cherish the most?
- What was your first impression of me in our early days together?
- What is a small gesture of mine that you will never forget?
- What was the most unexpected thing you discovered about me?
- What is the most meaningful gift I’ve given you?
- What’s a moment when you realized how much I mean to you?
