What to Wear to a Gala, According to 10 Experts

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Getting invited to an auction, charity event, or a fundraiser don’t come around all the time, so attending such an event could very well be the highlight of the year.

However, the idea of choosing what to wear for this type of special occasion can feel a little daunting.

That’s why we’ve gathered some expert tips to help you decide what to wear to any gala event.

Here are their insights:

Jean Shafiroff

Jean Shafiroff

Philanthropist | Humanitarian | Activist | Author

As the Fall charity season begins, people often wonder what to wear to different charity galas. As a woman who loves style and fashion and who sits on the Board of the Couture Council of the Museum of the Fashion Institute of Technology, I am happy to try to help make this decision easier!

Each year I chair or co-chair at least 8 or 9 events, then attend about another 80 or so events and so appropriate dress is something I am clearly interested in!

However, first and foremost, anyone interested in purchasing a ticket and supporting a charity should know that what they wear comes secondary to the actual purpose of the party.

A good charity will be happy to have your support regardless of what you wear.

That being said there are some basic principles that should be followed based on what type of dress code is specified on a charity invitation.

If an invitation does not specify a dress code, then an individual probably should reach out the Special Events Department of the charity to inquire about dress attire for the event.

Here are some basic guidelines for charity parties based on what is specified on an invitation:

White tie event

Long gown for women and long tuxedo tails for men. (Very few events are a white tie and, as a result, most men may never need to own or rent a tuxedo with tails.)

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Black tie event

Long gown or short dressy dress for women and tuxedo for men.

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Festive attire event

Long or short dress with a colorful or festive feel for women. Sports jacket and pants (no jeans) for men. Festive attire events generally give patrons a great deal of flexibility in what they wear.

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Business attire

Wear what you would wear to the office — but no jeans or shorts. Men should wear a jacket and tie.

Casual attire

Women should wear a nice casual dress or pantsuit. Men should wear a blazer and sports pants. No jeans or shorts. Ties not necessary for men.

Special note: Dress code rules are becoming more and more blurred. But it is always wise to follow the instructions are given on an invitation. Your presence at an event is the most important thing. Go to have a good time and learn all you can about the work of the charity!

Eric Lee Edmonson

Eric Lee Edmonson

Fashion Blogger, The ELE Code | Style Coach

When it comes to what to wear to a gala, it really depends on what type of gala it is that your attending.

Long formal gown and black tuxedo

There are different types of galas that call for different dress codes. For example, a black-tie gala would normally call a long formal gown for women and a black tuxedo for men.

For women at this type of a Gala, I would say to not show to much skin. I would say only show “one goodie”, for example maybe show a little leg and the rest of your body is covered. Or maybe show your shoulders and have everything else covered. Just keep in mind of staying within dress-code.

Cocktail dresses

For a semi-formal or black-tie optional gala, you may be able to get away with wearing a cocktail dress that is not long and play with different patterns and textures more so than a formal gala.

For example, you may be able to get away with wearing a floral cocktail dress which may not be a go at a more formal gala. Women may even be able to wear a 2 piece suit to this type of gala.

So all in all, it really depends on the dress-code set for the gala as to what is appropriate or not. I will say never wear a day bag to any type of gala you go to. Meaning, if you would wear it to the grocery store, don’t wear it to a gala.

Clutch bags and pieces of jewelry

A clutch is pretty standard when it comes to handbags at a Gala. I would also advise always wearing some type of jewelry. Having no jewelry is pretty plain jane and I always say why blend-in when you can stand out! You do not have to wear your whole jewelry collection, however, a statement piece would not hurt.

Looking at your best self is the goal for a gala. That at the end of the day is standard across the board for men and women no matter what.

Tyler Butler

Tyler Butler

Columnist | Fashion Blogger, Giving In Style | Influencer

As an expert in both the corporate philanthropy and fashion arenas, I have experienced the growing pains of learning and understanding what classifies as outstanding style at the poshest events and galas.

These were hard-learned lessons, which took me making countless mistakes before I began to truly understand what works in the circles of society and what does not.

Identify the event’s theme and cause

First and foremost consider the events’ theme, if there is one, and also the cause or organization that the gala is benefitting.

Take cues from these parameters when selecting your outfit.

For instance, if the event is for the American Heart Association you may consider rocking their traditional color of red or perhaps incorporating some type of avant-garde heart designed pendent or print into your ensemble.

Always consider comfort

Some galas can be an all-night occasion and as such you will want to select each item you wear with comfort in mind. There is nothing more classless then exiting a gala carrying your own shoes or with a garment partially removed because of discomfort.

Take note of the venue as well

You might need to consider a wrap or pho-fur stall if it’s being held in a chilly venue or if the event is outside. The same holds true if the event is a summer affair, where you might feel best in a shorter dress. Think about what type of dress will best suit the season and venue.

This should also be considered where shoes are concerned.

If you are attending a garden party then wedges or wide heeled shoes will be your best options. Perhaps if the event is particularly elegant you may want to consider wearing a bejeweled heel or designer brand of shoe. As they say the devil is in the details.

You should also consider jewelry

Dependent upon how high or low the design of your gown and shoes are, you might consider keeping your jewels to a minimum. Look at whether just earrings might be best or if you should consider a chunky statement necklace or ring.

Sometimes, less is more, especially at events that cost several hundred dollars or more a plate.

Think about hair and makeup

Galas are occasions where people definitely put their best foot forward. Many cities have excellent makeup artists that you can either visit or will even come to you.

Many times if my gown, shoes, jewels, and makeup are all in check, I will intentionally keep my hair low key. A super straight look or perhaps subtle waves will work best. I caution against having your hair done in too severe of an updo as that can come across as too “junior or prom-like.”

Consider your entire look

It is important to look your best, but also that you feel like yourself.

Select items that reinforce your best self and that make you want to smile. Happiness is an inside out job and even with the most glamorous attire, you can only truly shine when you have joy coming from within.

Victoria Barbara

Victoria Barbara

Influencer | Model | Fashion Expert

Understand the cause and research of previous events

Preparing for a Gala is quite an exciting process. From understanding what the cause is for to researching what has been worn before, sourcing and allowing each component to bring the outfit together seamlessly.

You want to make a sophisticated yet powerful stance when you take that first step on to the red carpet that will have the spectators in awe but most importantly you want to embody the highest version of yourself. This is your moment. Shine.

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Susie Coelho

Susie Coelho

Owner & Designer, House of Sussex

Most galas I’ve attended are either in Hollywood or New York. New York generally is more conservative unless it’s the Met Gala! Especially if Gaga is one of the co-chairs!

I would suggest a more classic long gown or ball gown and your finest jewelry

You can’t go wrong. If in Hollywood then there is the opportunity to be a bit more creative with your dress as most likely there will be people from the entertainment industry, either actors, musicians, producers, etc. and they go all out in an attempt to catch the cameras and get noticed!

To compete one might consider wearing an interesting color like lime green, red or yellow dress which are hot trend colors this year. Bring in some Hollywood glam.

Maybe a gold beaded pantsuit to honor Elton John and take it a step further with a hat from the finest millenary in London, Lock & Co. Hatters who made hats for Jackie O, Charlie Chaplin, and Queen Elizabeth!

Jamé Jackson

Jamé Jackson

Founder, The Blonde Misfit

As a fashion and beauty journalist based in NYC, I get invited to a lot of galas and black-tie events on a weekly basis.

You can never go wrong with a gown

I always think that it’s better to be overdressed than underdressed. They are easy ways to look elevated while also having a ton of personality!

Depending on the situation, I always opt for color. When you’re networking and meeting people all night long, it’s so easy to forget names. But nobody is going to forget the beautiful woman in the red dress or the handsome man who had a multicolor handkerchief.

Some people wear cocktail dresses to a gala, and that is totally fine! At the end of the day, it should be an elevated version of what you already bring to the table, and a statement necklace or jewelry will also bring it up higher!

For shoes, you should always opt for comfortability. Buy a pair of bendable flats to throw in your purse so you can change when your heels begin to hurt your feet. There is nothing cute about blisters on your feet!

A few days before the event, make sure that you’ve tried your shoes on and had a chance to walk in them. If you need to get them stretched, do that in advance so you can try them on again before the big day. Galas can last for hours on hours, so you want to be as comfortable as possible while you’re on your feet.

Shaunya Hartley

Shaunya Hartley

Style Evangelist

For ladies, think long gowns – trains are not necessary. For men, it’s always a tux

Galas are special occasions most often with wealthy patrons attending. There will be a lot of glitz and almost always black or even white tie. This is not the time to throw on any old thing unless any old thing is a well-maintained gown for ladies or modern fit tux for men.

If you are confused about what to wear, do a Google search of the event the year before if possible. You’ll be able to see images of the attendees from the prior year to get a feel for what the dress code will be.

You don’t have to break the bank. Guys can rent tuxes or pick up a well made one at Men’s Warehouse. Ladies, you have tons of options- hit the clearance section in your local department store first, also off-price retailers like TJ Maxx and Marshall’s have great gown sections.

Also, try a thrift shop or vintage boutique to get something one of a kind.  Rent the Runway has excellent options as well.

Jessica Mansmith, MNA

Jessica Mansmith

Consultant | Nonprofit Management & Development Professional

As a high-level nonprofit fundraiser, I have to plan and attend many galas. Deciding what to wear is half the fun and can be a little stressful, too! Here’s how I decide what to wear:

Does the event have a theme?

I’ve been to galas where a theme —Gatsby or masquerade, for example— set the parameters for attire.

A Hollywood/Dollywood/Bollywood-themed event was one of my favorites, with each floor of the venue decorated accordingly. Guests wore everything from chaps and Stetsons to floor-length gowns and saris. It was campy and so much fun!

Where is it being held?

Certainly, not all organizations have resources to host their benefit in the best venue in town, so taking this into account may be important.

If people feel less inclined to dress formally in an informal setting, playing it safe with a simple cocktail dress or fitted suit will work. Accessories like artistic jewelry pieces and bright pocket squares will smarten and give personality to otherwise traditional choices.

No matter what, aim for comfort

Galas can be long and tedious affairs, or they could turn into ripping parties. Either way, I don’t want to injure my feet with a poor shoe choice or feel weighed down by too much beading.

I prefer to wear long dresses that breathe, so I look for lightweight fabrics and styles that look great with layers or by themselves. I want to easily move, dance, and eat!

Sarah Armendariz

Sarah Armendariz

Owner & Designer, Cosima

It’s not every day that you get to attend a gala, so, when the occasion arises, you should go all out. It’s important to understand just how formal the typical gala dress code is; long well-tailored evening dresses, chic high-quality heels, a classy clutch, and polished statement jewelry are all musts!

Sheereen Charles

Sheereen Charles

Stylist, Cups of Coco

A floral dress is a great go-to that most people already own

Dress it up by wearing it with a clutch and drop earrings. Want a fairytale look, go for a romantic dress in a lightweight fabric and a soft color– think materials like tulle or lace and colors like blush or teal.

Accompany it with dainty modern jewelry and accessories. Or go for a bold ensemble with an all-out sparkly dress. Leave as is or tone it down a notch by throwing a solid blazer on top or wearing simple strap heels.