80 Conversation Starters for a Guy You Like

Feeling a bit stumped on how to start a conversation with that guy you like? Trust me, you’re not the only one. It’s totally normal to feel a mix of excitement and nervousness. You want to make a good impression without coming off as too eager.

Well, I’m here to help with that. I’ve gathered a bunch of conversation starters that are easy to slip into any situation. 

From asking about his favorite movies to discussing future aspirations, these questions are sure to keep the conversation engaging and fun. Ready to make your move?

Common Interests and Hobbies

  1. What do you love doing in your free time?
  2. Do you have any favorite hobbies?
  3. What kind of sports do you enjoy watching or playing?
  4. Do you play any musical instruments?
  5. Have you tried any new hobbies recently?
  6. What’s a hobby you’ve always wanted to try but haven’t yet?
  7. Do you enjoy outdoor activities like hiking or camping?
  8. Are you into video games? If so, which ones?
  9. Do you follow any particular sports teams?
  10. Do you collect anything?

Likes and Dislikes

  1. What’s your favorite movie of all time?
  2. Do you have a favorite author?
  3. Is there any type of music you can’t stand?
  4. What’s your favorite type of cuisine?
  5. Do you prefer coffee or tea?
  6. What’s your least favorite food?
  7. Do you have a favorite book or series?
  8. Are you a morning person or a night owl?
  9. What’s a food you could never give up?
  10. What’s your favorite TV show?

Personal Experiences and Stories

  1. What’s the best vacation you’ve ever been on?
  2. Do you have any fun childhood stories?
  3. What’s the most adventurous thing you’ve ever done?
  4. Have you ever met someone famous?
  5. What’s the funniest thing that’s ever happened to you?
  6. Have you ever lived in another country?
  7. What’s the most memorable concert you’ve attended?
  8. Do you have any siblings? Any funny stories about them?
  9. What’s the most unusual job you’ve ever had?
  10. Have you ever done something completely out of your comfort zone?

Books, Movies, and TV Shows

  1. Have you read any good books lately?
  2. What TV series are you binge-watching now?
  3. What’s the last movie you saw in theaters?
  4. Do you have a favorite movie genre?
  5. What’s the best show you’ve ever watched?
  6. Are there any classic books you think everyone should read?
  7. What’s a movie everyone loves but you can’t stand?
  8. Who is your favorite actor or actress?
  9. Have you ever read a book that changed your life?
  10. What’s your favorite animated movie?

Food and Drink Preferences

  1. What’s your favorite type of cuisine?
  2. Do you prefer coffee or tea?
  3. What’s your favorite restaurant around here?
  4. Do you like trying new foods or drinks?
  5. What’s your go-to comfort food?
  6. Do you enjoy cooking or baking?
  7. What’s the best meal you’ve ever had?
  8. Do you have a favorite dessert?
  9. What’s a food you’ll never try again?
  10. What’s your favorite drink to order when you go out?

Future Plans and Aspirations

  1. Where do you see yourself in five years?
  2. Is there something you’ve always wanted to learn or try?
  3. Do you have any travel plans for the future?
  4. What’s your dream job?
  5. Do you have any goals you’re currently working towards?
  6. What’s a major bucket list item for you?
  7. Where would you like to live in the future?
  8. Do you plan on going back to school for anything?
  9. What’s a skill you want to master?
  10. Do you plan on starting any new hobbies soon?

Current Events and Opinions

  1. Did you hear about [recent event]?
  2. What’s your take on [current issue]?
  3. Have you been following the news recently?
  4. What are your thoughts on [popular topic]?
  5. Do you think [recent event] will change things?
  6. How do you feel about [current social trend]?
  7. Do you keep up with any specific news outlets?
  8. What’s your opinion on [recent technological advancement]?
  9. How do you feel about [current event affecting the community]?
  10. What do you think is the most important issue today?

Hypothetical Scenarios

  1. If you could have any superpower, what would it be?
  2. If you won the lottery, what’s the first thing you’d do?
  3. If you could travel anywhere, where would you go?
  4. If you could have dinner with any celebrity, who would it be?
  5. If you could live in any era, which one would you choose?
  6. If you had to eat one food for the rest of your life, what would it be?
  7. If you could switch lives with anyone for a day, who would it be?
  8. If you had a time machine, would you go to the past or the future?
  9. If you could change one thing about the world, what would it be?
  10. If you could instantly learn any skill, what would it be?

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Bea is an editor and writer with a passion for literature and self-improvement. Her ability to combine these two interests enables her to write informative and thought-provoking articles that positively impact society. She enjoys reading stories and listening to music in her spare time.